I understand this may come to some people as a surprise and to others it may seems like an angry wife venting all their laundry through social media. Whatever your feelings may be please keep an open mind and think about what it might be like if your own sister or family member was the one facing this kind of situation, what will you do? Remember l could be your sister, your mother, your neigbhor and or your relative…..
My name is Bisi Nwokenkwo the wife of Jude Nwokenkwo, the current Ehime mbano local government chairman Imo state, Nigeria. We have been married for 21yrs with three wonderful boys age 17, 11, and 8year old. Fourteen months ago my husband Jude Nwokenkwo decided with my full support and blessings to run for Federal house of Representative under APGA in Imo state, he lost the election to another candidate from New York. But was appointed the local government chairman (Ehime Mbano) by the current Governor of Imo State (His Excellency Rochas Okorocha).
Since fourteen months now my husband (Jude) has abandoned me and our three boys in the United States without any prior disagreements or problems. I have tried numerous avenue to either speak to him directly about his obligations and or have his closest friends talk to him, every effort has failed. As of now our home in the United States has been foreclosed (taken away from us due to lack of payment for a period of time) and he has not contributed towards the financial stability of his boys since he left for the election in November 2010.
I found out in the beginning of 2011 through private investigation that Jude Nwokenkwo is now married to a 21yrs old lady called Ugonma Duru younger sister of Cyprian I. Duru through Ibo traditional marriage that took place in Omuaha in Abia State while still legally married to me in the United States, I have confronted my husband with all the evidence that was in my possession but still vehenmently denied ever been married or have any woman living with him in Nigeria. l understand this young lady have a family members in Virginia that condoned her behavior. According to this younger lady’s family in Virginia, Jude had came to asked for their sister’s hand in marriage but had told them that he has never been married or have any kids, which is a naive statement to make……. a 48yrs old Ibo man not married and no kids, are you kidding me???? What planet does this family thinks they are from? Throughout all this, l have tried to justify my husband’s action/irresponsible behaviour by saying to myself men will be men and may be probably he is using this younger lady to release election tension in Naija. I guess it’s more than releasing election tension, after drinking the milk from the cow Jude Nwokenkwo decided to buy the cow. If only the cow is worth losing your family for. I can’t believe this weak, coward, and no backbone of a man is leaving me and our boys for this village illiterate younger lady……what am l saying, l forgot beauty is in the eyes of the beholder…hahaha. Men, seriously if you want to leave your wife and kids for a lady pleaseeeee make sure it’s worth it and not some half educated village illiterate imbecille that is way beneath you and your wife…..shiooo! This younger lady doesn’t love my husband she is only there for the money and security……what 21 year old would in their right mind want to be married to a 48year old man who is old enough to be her father? And what mother would open her eyes to allow her young girl to marry a married man if she is not a desperate mother without morals or God’s fear in her. This girl’s mother is a shameless woman if you ask me. As of now Jude Nwokenkwo is living with this younger lady and her mother in owerri city as a married couple and they are both expecting a baby anytime soon, it not a rumor but facts.
This husband of mine thinks he can have his cake and eat it too. He kept me and some of his families in the dark for so long until God exposed him to me.
This evil heartless man (Jude) is not only committing an adultery/bigamy, he has the nerves to ruined my credit here in the States by taking out a $40,000 loan on my name from JP Morgan chase without my consent…..people who does that???? if it’s not a criminal minded human being. Jude Nwokenkwo and his brothers Emmanuel and Simon Nwokenkwo are bunch of 419s.
As a matter of fact, his older brother Emmanuel aka Emma santana Nwokenkwo is a wanted man here in the States, if anyone knows his where about please contact the authorities in the states.
Furthermore, when Jude came back to the U.S in July 2011 for three weeks he wired $8,000 to this younger lady’s account in Naija, l have all the evidence and he also purchased a $2000.00 wedding rings for her, when l confronted him in front of our pastor with all the evidence he have the nerves to say that it was for my birthday….negro are you for real?? Mind you people he never give me that ring. And he ran back to Nigeria without our knowledge. The sad part was when he was sworn in as the local govt chairman, he refused the presences of me and the boys, l can’t believe he used his brother’s wife as a woman standing in my place. When people asked him where is family are he cooked up a story about how they will join him later. What a shame! This stupid man (Jude Nwokenkwo) has a lucrative Home Healthcare business here in chicago, he cannot even instruct his business partner to give his family money to support us instead he has the gut to use his younger brother Simon Uche Nwokenkwo to wire money to him in Naija every time and also he has been helping him shipping Mercedes Benz trucks to Nigeria for a present for his new fake wife, oh sorry, his concubine. Both brothers are now scheming the medical supply distributors out of thousands of dollar worth of equipments by closing down our medical supply company here in Chicago, Illinois and shipping all unpaid equipments to Nigeria to open up a new equipment supply shop in Owerri Imo state, Nigeria. That’s a crime. For the past fourteen months have tried to reason with this man, l can’t keep this any longer and l just want all this to be out in the open for everyone to know the true color of Jude Nwokenkwo…. this man is a chameleon. Jude and his concubine called my mobile phone this afternoon Jan 24th 2012 from Nigeria to insult me. Jude also has denied his kids by his own statements to me ” what kids and what responsibility he stated” Maaannn Jude must be pussy whooped as one of my dear friend said. ugh!
My fellow Nigerians, if some of you on this forum thinks am venting……darn right Skippy l am, 21yrs of married is not 21days of courtship and it’s not a joke. My kids and l deserved better than the way Jude is treating us and it is not fair. “never bite the hands that feeds you” I thought wise people say charity begins at home. If Jude cannot take care of his family how on earth did the Governor appoint this man to serve his constituency. Naija citizens need to start watching out for people they put in the office to serve them, that is why we are still in all this mess.
Also through many conversations with his friends l understand that Jude had said that he is not interested in this marriage, fine then do the right thing by coming back to the states to get a divorce, and clear my name of all the credit mess you put on me.
Thank you all for reading my open letter.